Fortunately, this weekend was the low-key affair that I desperately needed. Much of it was spent sleeping, eating, and watching basketball, but Wheat and I decided to have a fun day on Saturday.
First, we headed to the NCAA Hall of Champions downtown. I'm so glad we had a coupon because we were pretty disappointed. It was primarily geared toward kids, which explains why Wheat's favorite part was shooting around on the half-court upstairs.
Next, we went to Bazbeaux for some delicious pizza before checking out Stout's Shoes, the oldest shoe store in America. The best part? Ripley, the talking parrot that lives inside. I spent five minutes begging him to talk and as soon as I gave up and turned around, he said bye.
On a whim, we decided to go to Orange Leaf for some ice cream. We hit the absolute jackpot because it was a $5 all-you-can-eat buffet day. Toppings galore. After finally dragging ourselves out of Orange Leaf, we decided to explore Butler's campus for the first time. We checked out the beautiful gardens, walked around the student union, and, of course, I took tons of pictures.
Is it really Monday already?
Monday, March 31, 2014
Thursday, March 27, 2014
Happy Thoughts Thursday!
After the ridiculous outpouring of love and support regarding my last post, I feel so lucky and ready to take on this journey with my mom. I can't thank everyone enough for the kind words, support, prayers, and encouragement that are being sent our way. My mind is right and when that happens, it's easy to pick out happy thoughts. So, let's do this.
- Baseball. It's happening soon, folks. I know the weather doesn't feel like it, but it's coming - no matter what. I really can't wait for night games, ballpark hot dogs, and the inevitable implosion by the Reds.
- Reunions. Matt, Andrea, and adorable Lily came to Indianapolis on Sunday, so we had a little grad school reunion at Scotty's. Although we were missing a few good friends, the food was great, the company was better, and I finally got to hang out with my new best friend.
- Free weekends. This weekend will be the first plan-free weekend Wheat and I have had together in months. Between Pacers and Cyclones games, trips to Lebanon, and other obligations, we have seriously had something scheduled every weekend since I can remember. With the playoffs quickly approaching for both of us, I'm hoping we get some FUN in before our lives spiral out of control.
- Penguins. Two penguins from the Newport Aquarium dropped the ceremonial first puck at the Cyclones game last weekend and the only thing that would have excited me more was if the Penguins were actually Sidney Crosby and Evgeni Malkin.
- "I Love the Rain the Most" by Joe Purdy. Wheat introduced me to this song a while back and I love it. The driving force of the guitar, his voice, all of it. Enjoy.
Do you think your baseball team will disappoint you this season?
Have you ever contemplated stealing a baby? Me either...
What is making YOU happy this week?
- Baseball. It's happening soon, folks. I know the weather doesn't feel like it, but it's coming - no matter what. I really can't wait for night games, ballpark hot dogs, and the inevitable implosion by the Reds.
- Reunions. Matt, Andrea, and adorable Lily came to Indianapolis on Sunday, so we had a little grad school reunion at Scotty's. Although we were missing a few good friends, the food was great, the company was better, and I finally got to hang out with my new best friend.
- Free weekends. This weekend will be the first plan-free weekend Wheat and I have had together in months. Between Pacers and Cyclones games, trips to Lebanon, and other obligations, we have seriously had something scheduled every weekend since I can remember. With the playoffs quickly approaching for both of us, I'm hoping we get some FUN in before our lives spiral out of control.
- Penguins. Two penguins from the Newport Aquarium dropped the ceremonial first puck at the Cyclones game last weekend and the only thing that would have excited me more was if the Penguins were actually Sidney Crosby and Evgeni Malkin.
A couple of surprise guests from @NewportAquarium dropping the puck tonight. #WaddleWaddle #CincyCyclones pic.twitter.com/Ixp9OdzJYk
— Cincinnati Cyclones (@CincyCyclones) March 21, 2014
- "I Love the Rain the Most" by Joe Purdy. Wheat introduced me to this song a while back and I love it. The driving force of the guitar, his voice, all of it. Enjoy.
Do you think your baseball team will disappoint you this season?
Have you ever contemplated stealing a baby? Me either...
What is making YOU happy this week?
Tuesday, March 25, 2014
Here We Go
In complete honesty, I wasn't sure I'd ever be able to write this post. I've started it a few times - typed a few words, then deleted it entirely and logged off. I haven't even been reading other blogs lately because they served as a painful reminder that eventually I'd be typing the following words:
Three weeks ago, my mom was diagnosed with stage 3B ovarian cancer.
After 21 days of processing that information, learning as much as possible about the disease, and crying more tears than you would think are humanly possible, I think I'm finally ready to do what I have always done with my problems - write about it.
I'm not going to document the symptoms, surgery, or diagnosis right now. Frankly, it's still too raw, too real and I don't want to relive it anytime soon. Instead, I'll focus on the here and now because, as much as I'd like to pretend otherwise, that's the only thing any of us can control.
My mom, my best friend, confidant, hero, and person, started chemotherapy this morning. This appointment starts a five-month journey of unpleasant treatment that will ultimately make her better.
...and that's exactly what will happen.
She will get better. My mom is the strongest person I know, bar none. She is also the kindest, most thoughtful, and giving person I know. I have absolutely no doubt that, with the support of everyone that loves her (and let's be real - that's everyone that knows her), this will be a story of triumph in a few short months, one that I have no problem writing about because her strength and resilience will be easy to share.
I love you, Mommles and I'm here every step of the way.
Three weeks ago, my mom was diagnosed with stage 3B ovarian cancer.
After 21 days of processing that information, learning as much as possible about the disease, and crying more tears than you would think are humanly possible, I think I'm finally ready to do what I have always done with my problems - write about it.
I'm not going to document the symptoms, surgery, or diagnosis right now. Frankly, it's still too raw, too real and I don't want to relive it anytime soon. Instead, I'll focus on the here and now because, as much as I'd like to pretend otherwise, that's the only thing any of us can control.
My mom, my best friend, confidant, hero, and person, started chemotherapy this morning. This appointment starts a five-month journey of unpleasant treatment that will ultimately make her better.
...and that's exactly what will happen.
She will get better. My mom is the strongest person I know, bar none. She is also the kindest, most thoughtful, and giving person I know. I have absolutely no doubt that, with the support of everyone that loves her (and let's be real - that's everyone that knows her), this will be a story of triumph in a few short months, one that I have no problem writing about because her strength and resilience will be easy to share.
I love you, Mommles and I'm here every step of the way.
Monday, March 17, 2014
Happy Thoughts...Monday.
I know it's not Thursday, but I need all the happy thoughts I can get. So, here goes:
- The Sing-Off Tour. Wheat and I made a last-minute decision to see The Sing-Off Tour at the Murat last week and it was incredible. The tickets were super cheap and extremely close (second row!), which made for a great view, but some awkward eye contact with the singers. Home Free, the country group that won the competition, was awesome and surprisingly hilarious, but the biggest surprise for me was how great (and funny) Vocal Play was. Along with Filharmonic and Street Corner Symphony (from Season 2), the concert featured tons of songs that were performed on the show, the coolest beatboxing showdown ever, and of course, great music.
- The Walking Dead. I don't even have the words to describe this weekend's episode. Amazing. Creepy, but amazing. I can't believe there are only two more episodes this season.
- Green. It doesn't seem like it, but spring is on its way. It must be. The sun is staying out longer and soon enough, the grass will be green again! Today is also St. Patrick's Day and, even though I'm not doing anything festive, I did wear some green. Despite its vaguely toothpaste-like flavor, I also had a Shamrock Shake from McDonald's, as March tradition dictates. I held up my part of the deal - It's your turn, warm weather.
- Miami Valley Gaming. Wheat and I decided to check out the new casino near my house this weekend. Unfortunately, we missed the horse races, but we signed up for some cards and played the slot machines with $20 each of house money. We loved walking around the casino, picking out free buckeyes for good luck, checking out the hilarious games (Dolly Parton, Walking Dead, Wizard of Oz, etc.), and counting our earnings. The promotional money went fast, but we ended up leaving with $33...and if you know me at all, you know how much I love free stuff.
- My new job. I started a new, part-time gig with the Indiana Business Research Center. I'm mostly doing data verification and I love it so far. The people are great, the atmosphere is really relaxed, and I don't bring any work home. It's just what I need right now.
Are you still addicted to reality singing competitions?
What's the most you've ever won gambling?
What's making YOU happy lately?
- The Sing-Off Tour. Wheat and I made a last-minute decision to see The Sing-Off Tour at the Murat last week and it was incredible. The tickets were super cheap and extremely close (second row!), which made for a great view, but some awkward eye contact with the singers. Home Free, the country group that won the competition, was awesome and surprisingly hilarious, but the biggest surprise for me was how great (and funny) Vocal Play was. Along with Filharmonic and Street Corner Symphony (from Season 2), the concert featured tons of songs that were performed on the show, the coolest beatboxing showdown ever, and of course, great music.
- The Walking Dead. I don't even have the words to describe this weekend's episode. Amazing. Creepy, but amazing. I can't believe there are only two more episodes this season.
- Green. It doesn't seem like it, but spring is on its way. It must be. The sun is staying out longer and soon enough, the grass will be green again! Today is also St. Patrick's Day and, even though I'm not doing anything festive, I did wear some green. Despite its vaguely toothpaste-like flavor, I also had a Shamrock Shake from McDonald's, as March tradition dictates. I held up my part of the deal - It's your turn, warm weather.
- Miami Valley Gaming. Wheat and I decided to check out the new casino near my house this weekend. Unfortunately, we missed the horse races, but we signed up for some cards and played the slot machines with $20 each of house money. We loved walking around the casino, picking out free buckeyes for good luck, checking out the hilarious games (Dolly Parton, Walking Dead, Wizard of Oz, etc.), and counting our earnings. The promotional money went fast, but we ended up leaving with $33...and if you know me at all, you know how much I love free stuff.
- My new job. I started a new, part-time gig with the Indiana Business Research Center. I'm mostly doing data verification and I love it so far. The people are great, the atmosphere is really relaxed, and I don't bring any work home. It's just what I need right now.
Are you still addicted to reality singing competitions?
What's the most you've ever won gambling?
What's making YOU happy lately?
Saturday, March 8, 2014
Snapshots of Hating Winter
||Our first Miami hockey game||
||Miami lost to St. Cloud State, 3-0||
||The Ohio River on the first warm(ish) day of the year||
||Pink ice that was scraped from U.S. Bank Arena after breast cancer awareness night||
||Tulips overlooking Clifton||
Friday, March 7, 2014
Gulf Shores
I've neglected you yet again, my dear blog. Someday, I'll be better at this little hobby of mine.
After my parents picked me up in Mobile, we headed to Gulf Shores, my grandparents' winter vacation destination of choice. We spent the rest of the day, catching up with them and enjoying the view.
The next day, Mommles and I decided to go to the Alabama Gulf Coast Zoo. The zoo is unlike any other zoo I've ever seen. It feels so intimate, almost more like a farm than a zoo. We even had food to feed about half of the animals by hand. There were wolves, tigers, deer, ocelots, capuchin monkeys, bears, and so many more. The zookeepers are super passionate about their jobs, too. Between 2004 and 2005, they had to evacuate every single animal three different times to save them from hurricanes.
Obviously, we stopped for ice cream afterward.
That night, we met some of my grandparents' friends for dinner in Pensacola at McGuire's Irish Pub. The restaurant's claim to fame? The million signed dollar bills on the walls.
The next afternoon, Mommles and I took a leisurely walk on the beach. We made our way down to the pier, admiring the amazing sand castles and looking for seashells along the way. The sand felt so perfect and soft and although the water was cold, it felt so nice to escape the snow for a bit.
Nothing, of course, was better than spending some quality time with my best friend.
After my parents picked me up in Mobile, we headed to Gulf Shores, my grandparents' winter vacation destination of choice. We spent the rest of the day, catching up with them and enjoying the view.
The next day, Mommles and I decided to go to the Alabama Gulf Coast Zoo. The zoo is unlike any other zoo I've ever seen. It feels so intimate, almost more like a farm than a zoo. We even had food to feed about half of the animals by hand. There were wolves, tigers, deer, ocelots, capuchin monkeys, bears, and so many more. The zookeepers are super passionate about their jobs, too. Between 2004 and 2005, they had to evacuate every single animal three different times to save them from hurricanes.
| Mom's favorite. |
| We always seem to see this at zoos. |
| Chuckie, the zoo's mascot, was the only animal they left behind during Hurricane Ivan. |
| Why do I find capybaras so funny? |
Obviously, we stopped for ice cream afterward.
That night, we met some of my grandparents' friends for dinner in Pensacola at McGuire's Irish Pub. The restaurant's claim to fame? The million signed dollar bills on the walls.
The next afternoon, Mommles and I took a leisurely walk on the beach. We made our way down to the pier, admiring the amazing sand castles and looking for seashells along the way. The sand felt so perfect and soft and although the water was cold, it felt so nice to escape the snow for a bit.
Nothing, of course, was better than spending some quality time with my best friend.
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
NOLA 2014
Sorry for the radio silence around here lately. For both good and bad reasons, the last couple weeks have been overwhelming and busy, but things are finally starting to settle down. So, I'm ready to share the awesome trip I took to New Orleans while Wheat covered NBA All-Star Weekend.
Since Wheat and I flew separately, this was my very first solo flight. After a short layover in Houston, I landed in New Orleans, took a cab to our hotel, and waited for his arrival. When he got there, we walked with two of his co-workers to the Superdome to pick up his credentials for the weekend. Next, the two of us headed to Bourbon Street for dinner and fun on his only free night. We had dinner at Bayou Burger, listened to live music and shared a Hand Grenade at Tropical Isle, enjoyed the patio and some Hurricanes at Pat O'Briens, and soaked in the atmosphere of Bourbon Street before the weekend rush.
The next morning, I decided to spend my Valentine's Day at the National World War II Museum. It was worth every penny. The museum itself, which is housed in several buildings, was incredible. You could truly spend a week in there and not read, watch, or hear everything. The amount of information is staggering and they are currently in various stages of opening two new buildings for even more exhibits.
One building serves as an airplane hangar of sorts, displaying many of the planes, tanks, and other ground vehicles used during combat. I even got to see a B-17, the plane my Grandad flew during the war.
The museum is incredibly interactive with several opportunities to watch movies, pose for pictures, and even talk to a WWII veteran in person. The highlight of the museum for me was the 4-D movie, Beyond All Boundaries. The short film, which details the events of the war, is narrated by Tom Hanks and features readings from Brad Pitt, Tobey Maguire, Gary Sinise, Wendell Pierce, and more. Over the course of the movie, various props rise from the stage, the seats shake, and it even snows on the audience in an attempt to put you in the soldiers' shoes.
When I finished checking out the museum, I headed to one of the two restaurants on campus, The American Sector, for some Olympic hockey and Chef John Besh's 75 cent BBQ sliders. Perfect.
Oh yeah - and because I mentioned I was spending my Valentine's Day at the museum, they sent me some love on Twitter. Excellent.
Next, I walked back to the hotel for a daytime stroll through the French Quarter. I stopped in Jackson Square to watch a magic show, then some guy cleaned my shoes without permission as I watched barges float by on the Mississippi River. As the sun was setting, I headed over to Treme for a relaxing walk through Armstrong Park. On my way back to the hotel, I spotted Jacoby Jones (of the Baltimore Ravens) on Bourbon Street, but ultimately decided not to approach him for a picture when I saw the mob of girls surrounding him.
Wheat came back fairly early that night, so we ventured out for some beignets at Cafe du Monde. On our way, we walked past a small crowd on the sidewalk only to see James Harden and Kevin Durant leaving a party. Somehow, I resisted the urge to touch Harden's beard and we closed out our Valentine's Day with happy tummies and powdered sugar stains on our shirts.
The next day, I went to check out Harrah's and randomly saw Anthony Davis handing out Red Bull on the street. New Orleans is a strange, but magical place.
Wheat had a couple hours of downtime, so we met up with his cousin Newman for lunch. Based on the line out the door (usually a good sign), we decided on Felix's. The boys had oysters, but I wussed out and ordered chicken. Typical.
Wheat had the Skills Challenge that night, so I decided to stake out a place in the French Quarter to watch Krewe du Vieux's satirical, adult-themed Mardi Gras parade. This year's theme was 'Where the Vile Things Are,' so you can imagine. Due in part to the raucous crowd and the two-hour wait, I wasn't all that impressed by the parade. The music was great and the floats were entertaining, but I'm not sure I'd fight the crowds to do it again, especially not by myself. I am happy, however, that I can check 'Watch a parade in the French Quarter' off my bucket list.
Sunday was absolutely gorgeous, so I figured it was the perfect opportunity to explore the Garden District. I took the St. Charles streetcar to the area and hopped off with a map in hand. My first stop was Lafayette Cemetery. I highly suggest visiting at least one cemetery if you travel to New Orleans. They are beautiful, peaceful, and absolutely mesmerizing.
Next, I admired the gorgeous houses, making special note of those owned by Sandra Bullock, John Goodman, and Anne Rice. I also found the house where Jefferson Davis died, the house where the Manning brothers grew up, and the house (Buckner Mansion) used as Miss Robichaux's Academy in this season of American Horror Story.
I made my way back to the hotel to meet Wheat for dinner. We stopped at Johnny's Po-Boys for my favorite meal of the trip before strolling hand-in-hand through Woldenberg Park. During our walk, we saw Tamika Catchings of the Indiana Fever and danced to an awesome brass band.
On my way home, I walked slowly through the French Quarter, taking in the gorgeous architecture and weather for the last time. There is nothing quite like watching the lamps flicker in the dark of an empty street in the French Quarter.
The next morning, I took a cab to the Greyhound station for my bus ride to Mobile. Aside from seeing TWO people arrested in separate incidents, the ride was smooth and luckily for me, my parents actually showed up to pick me up for our brief trip to Gulf Shores.
Lastly, I need to brag for a second about my awesome boyfriend. I know you're tired of hearing it, but it bears repeating: I'm the luckiest girl in the world to have someone like him. I'm so proud of all the hard work he did in New Orleans and I still can't believe he's mine.
Since Wheat and I flew separately, this was my very first solo flight. After a short layover in Houston, I landed in New Orleans, took a cab to our hotel, and waited for his arrival. When he got there, we walked with two of his co-workers to the Superdome to pick up his credentials for the weekend. Next, the two of us headed to Bourbon Street for dinner and fun on his only free night. We had dinner at Bayou Burger, listened to live music and shared a Hand Grenade at Tropical Isle, enjoyed the patio and some Hurricanes at Pat O'Briens, and soaked in the atmosphere of Bourbon Street before the weekend rush.
The next morning, I decided to spend my Valentine's Day at the National World War II Museum. It was worth every penny. The museum itself, which is housed in several buildings, was incredible. You could truly spend a week in there and not read, watch, or hear everything. The amount of information is staggering and they are currently in various stages of opening two new buildings for even more exhibits.
One building serves as an airplane hangar of sorts, displaying many of the planes, tanks, and other ground vehicles used during combat. I even got to see a B-17, the plane my Grandad flew during the war.
The museum is incredibly interactive with several opportunities to watch movies, pose for pictures, and even talk to a WWII veteran in person. The highlight of the museum for me was the 4-D movie, Beyond All Boundaries. The short film, which details the events of the war, is narrated by Tom Hanks and features readings from Brad Pitt, Tobey Maguire, Gary Sinise, Wendell Pierce, and more. Over the course of the movie, various props rise from the stage, the seats shake, and it even snows on the audience in an attempt to put you in the soldiers' shoes.
When I finished checking out the museum, I headed to one of the two restaurants on campus, The American Sector, for some Olympic hockey and Chef John Besh's 75 cent BBQ sliders. Perfect.
Oh yeah - and because I mentioned I was spending my Valentine's Day at the museum, they sent me some love on Twitter. Excellent.
@blettany You can always be our Valentine! http://t.co/VgzAKRIESP pic.twitter.com/Y1AJhPhYiQ
— National WWII Museum (@WWIImuseum) February 14, 2014
Next, I walked back to the hotel for a daytime stroll through the French Quarter. I stopped in Jackson Square to watch a magic show, then some guy cleaned my shoes without permission as I watched barges float by on the Mississippi River. As the sun was setting, I headed over to Treme for a relaxing walk through Armstrong Park. On my way back to the hotel, I spotted Jacoby Jones (of the Baltimore Ravens) on Bourbon Street, but ultimately decided not to approach him for a picture when I saw the mob of girls surrounding him.
Wheat came back fairly early that night, so we ventured out for some beignets at Cafe du Monde. On our way, we walked past a small crowd on the sidewalk only to see James Harden and Kevin Durant leaving a party. Somehow, I resisted the urge to touch Harden's beard and we closed out our Valentine's Day with happy tummies and powdered sugar stains on our shirts.
The next day, I went to check out Harrah's and randomly saw Anthony Davis handing out Red Bull on the street. New Orleans is a strange, but magical place.
Wheat had a couple hours of downtime, so we met up with his cousin Newman for lunch. Based on the line out the door (usually a good sign), we decided on Felix's. The boys had oysters, but I wussed out and ordered chicken. Typical.
Wheat had the Skills Challenge that night, so I decided to stake out a place in the French Quarter to watch Krewe du Vieux's satirical, adult-themed Mardi Gras parade. This year's theme was 'Where the Vile Things Are,' so you can imagine. Due in part to the raucous crowd and the two-hour wait, I wasn't all that impressed by the parade. The music was great and the floats were entertaining, but I'm not sure I'd fight the crowds to do it again, especially not by myself. I am happy, however, that I can check 'Watch a parade in the French Quarter' off my bucket list.
Sunday was absolutely gorgeous, so I figured it was the perfect opportunity to explore the Garden District. I took the St. Charles streetcar to the area and hopped off with a map in hand. My first stop was Lafayette Cemetery. I highly suggest visiting at least one cemetery if you travel to New Orleans. They are beautiful, peaceful, and absolutely mesmerizing.
Next, I admired the gorgeous houses, making special note of those owned by Sandra Bullock, John Goodman, and Anne Rice. I also found the house where Jefferson Davis died, the house where the Manning brothers grew up, and the house (Buckner Mansion) used as Miss Robichaux's Academy in this season of American Horror Story.
I made my way back to the hotel to meet Wheat for dinner. We stopped at Johnny's Po-Boys for my favorite meal of the trip before strolling hand-in-hand through Woldenberg Park. During our walk, we saw Tamika Catchings of the Indiana Fever and danced to an awesome brass band.
When Wheat headed off for the All-Star Game, I ventured out to Frenchmen Street for some live music. I also stumbled upon an entrancing outdoor art sale with vendors peddling handmade jewelry and paintings. To me, Frenchmen Street seemed like the locals' Bourbon Street, a place for good food and music without the crowds, sleaziness, and drunken stupidity.
The next morning, I took a cab to the Greyhound station for my bus ride to Mobile. Aside from seeing TWO people arrested in separate incidents, the ride was smooth and luckily for me, my parents actually showed up to pick me up for our brief trip to Gulf Shores.
Lastly, I need to brag for a second about my awesome boyfriend. I know you're tired of hearing it, but it bears repeating: I'm the luckiest girl in the world to have someone like him. I'm so proud of all the hard work he did in New Orleans and I still can't believe he's mine.
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